Well, if I can use my own experience here and give advice, I will do so. No relationship can do without difficulties, but this one is not bad because this way you not only check your true attitude to each other, but also prepare to face life's difficulties. I liked the articles of one spouse who writes a blog https://ventsmagazine.com/2022/10/14/datewise-org-a-new-look-on-love-and-happy-relationship/ They describe in detail not only the problem and its solution, but also the emotions that are involved, it helps to better understand why a partner does this and not otherwise. For starters, this will be useful information for you.